How to win your man
back
If you want to know how to win your
man back then make sure you are not doing any of these
things.
- Don’t be needy. It is death to the
possibility of making up if you run to him and smother him.
By clinging on and not giving him any space to breath you
are pushing him further away. You have to look mature at
this time and look to be in control of yourself. If you are
falling over yourself to get attention from him then stop
now as it will look ugly from his point of view.
- Don’t tell him you love him, can’t
live without him etc. This will sound really hollow right
now. Don’t cheapen the word love by using it over and over.
There will come a time when you can say it again, but not
right now. You have to stand tall and be strong on your own
at this moment.
- Don’t call him. You shouldn’t make any
contact at all in the initial stages after a break up. You
have to stay completely away from him to starve him of
anything to do with you. This will start the process of him
missing you. Don’t text or email, this is not how to win
you man back. If you do every time his cell phone beeps he
will wonder if it is another crazy message from you. And
this is not the kind of thing you want him associating with
you. You want him to be thinking “I wonder what she’s doing
now?”
- Don’t stay at home. You need to focus
on building your confidence again, so you need to get out
and have some fun. Even if it is little by little in the
first place, you have to push yourself to socialize. By
giving you more interesting experiences it helps the make
up process in the future. Basically it gives you more to
talk about when you meet your ex again.
- Don’t rely on fate. Yes, it happens in
the movies, chance encounters bring people back together,
but in reality it rarely happens. If you are serious about
learning how to win your man
back have to take action yourself.
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