How to win your man back

If you want to know how to win your man back then make sure you are not doing any of these things.

Don’t be needy. It is death to the possibility of making up if you run to him and smother him. By clinging on and not giving him any space to breath you are pushing him further away. You have to look mature at this time and look to be in control of yourself. If you are falling over yourself to get attention from him then stop now as it will look ugly from his point of view.

Don’t tell him you love him, can’t live without him etc. This will sound really hollow right now. Don’t cheapen the word love by using it over and over. There will come a time when you can say it again, but not right now. You have to stand tall and be strong on your own at this moment.

Don’t call him. You shouldn’t make any contact at all in the initial stages after a break up. You have to stay completely away from him to starve him of anything to do with you. This will start the process of him missing you. Don’t text or email, this is not how to win you man back. If you do every time his cell phone beeps he will wonder if it is another crazy message from you. And this is not the kind of thing you want him associating with you. You want him to be thinking “I wonder what she’s doing now?”

Don’t stay at home and cry. You need to focus on building your confidence again, so you need to get out and have some fun. Even if it is little by little in the first place, you have to push yourself to socialize. By giving you more interesting experiences it helps the make up process in the future. Basically it gives you more to talk about when you meet your ex again.

Don’t rely on fate. Yes, it happens in the movies, chance encounters bring people back together, but in reality it rarely happens. If you are serious about learning how to win your man back have to take action yourself.