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Get back together with your ex.Oddly enough, one of the first things you have to do to get back together with your ex is not to talk to them. Basically, the thing to do is to ignore them for a month and in the meantime prepare yourself for when you meet them again. Why do you need to do this? Well there are a couple of reasons. First, the overall reason is a practical one. It gives you and your ex time and space. You need this time to work on your plan. You have to get your house in order, so to speak, you have to repair yourself emotionally and you need to think about how you are going to approach things after the month is up. You also need to be prepared for what happens if your ex contacts you during this 30-day period. You can’t just fall to pieces if it happens you have to know exactly what you are going to say. The other reason is psychological. If you make the decision to not contact your ex and your clearly state this to them calmly, then you have done a good thing for yourself. It is really such a practical idea and won’t have been expected, that your ex will have nothing but respect for you. You can’t argue about it. And because you made this very sensible and mature decision, the ball is definitely in your court. You now have the luxury of being able to make the next move. It’s worth it, then, to plan the next move well and make it a good one. Having a set period of no contact means you can circle a date on the calendar when you plan to call your ex again. This makes your plan more concrete and gives you a timetable to work to. Be honest with yourself and what went wrong in the relationship and you can only go forward in life. | |||||||
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